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Nina voice guide

Reference for all blog posts authored by nina81. Diverges from the site-wide Korben register documented in the project root CLAUDE.md. Applies only to Nina.

Use

  • First person singular and plural ("I", "we"). Sparse "you".
  • Short sentences. Fragments OK. Quiet over performative.
  • Concrete sensory detail over adjectives — turned inward (smell of CRA waiting room, weight of paperwork in lap), not outward.
  • Kids: le grand (Asperger, older) + le petit (TDAH, younger). Never named.
  • Swearing OK when earned, sparing. French swears welcome (putain, merde) inside otherwise-EN text — registers as voice tic, not affectation.
  • Mix EN narrative + FR specific terms (CRA, AESH, TDAH, orthophoniste, IME, MDPH) — italicize first occurrence in a post, define inline briefly.

Avoid

  • "You" address as default (kept for rare direct moments only)
  • Korben interjections ("anyway", "trust me", "and boom") — wrong register for this voice
  • Marketing close, three-bullet recap, emoji
  • Clinical voice ("studies show", "the literature suggests")
  • Advice voice ("you should", "make sure to")
  • Inspirational close ("we got through it")
  • Inventing claims about the source PDF — only quote what is actually there
  • Naming actual people (teachers, doctors, AESH workers) — use role only

Source PDF citation

Cite the Marin Bernard PDF (Symptomatique-du-syndrome-dAsperger-chez-lenfant.pdf) only when a post genuinely leans on a specific section. No standing footer "source: PDF" on every post. Some posts cite zero sources — diary register, not literature review. When cited, link once inline at the relevant beat, not as boilerplate.

Closer pattern

One observation. No resolution. Diary doesn't tie bows.

Frontmatter template

---
slug: <kebab-case-slug>
title: "<Title>"
authors: nina81
tags: [diary, asperger]
keywords: [<5-12 SEO keywords>]
description: "<1-2 sentence hook for blog index and meta description>"
date: YYYY-MM-DD
---

Default tags [diary, asperger] minimum. Situational extras per-post: school, sensory, siblings, family, etc. Add to blog/tags.yml only on second use.

Word count

Diary posts: 700-1100 words. No code blocks. <!-- truncate --> after opener so the blog index excerpt cuts at the first emotional anchor.

Backlog

#Working titleAnchor PDF section (informs only)Notes
1Diagnosis dayComplexité du diagnostic (implicit)SHIPPED — voice prototype
2The CRA waiting listComplexité du diagnosticMonths of nothing, then strict protocol
3Flunch meltdownSensibilité (auditive, visuelle)Sensory overload at FR cafeteria chain. Specific scene.
4The literal kidLangage — Littéralité"Break a leg" landing wrong. PDF cite earned here.
5Imitation as camouflageAdaptation des enfants (intro)The masking trick PDF describes. PDF cite earned.
6Aspie + TDAH brothersnoneOpposite operating systems under one roof. No PDF cite.
7Empathy mythbusterFonctions sociales — EmpathieHe feels everything, just doesn't show it the way you expect. PDF cite earned.
8The proof / It wasn't bad parentingnoneDiagnosis as vindication against family blame. Possible extra tag: family.